What are your opinions on a sexless marriage?What are your opinions on a sexless marriage?
I feel very sad for couples going through this. I don't agree with a sexless marriage. It's such a strong bond between man and woman. I don't ever want this to happen when I get married. I'll want my husband everynight. I love having sex with the same man over and over and over again, year after year after year after year. It's great because you get to know that persons body and know eactly how too turn them on. OMG...and the things you can explore together....sorry am I drifting off the questionWhat are your opinions on a sexless marriage?
I have a friend who's in a celibate marriage. This marriage has endured for a very long time. It involves two platonic friends who married each other. They're great people to be around. I support other people's right to pursue whatever lifestyle they choose. If a couple wishes to be celibate, that's their own business.
i think it's sad. very sad. i think sex was ';created'; to be a joining together, not just the physical, pleasurable part but the mental, emotional parts - that people need - to bring them comfort - and to know they are truly loved. i'm thinking it should be a healthy, human, natural part of being in an adult relationship with another person.
but i also think that the world has so corrupted sex, diminished it to a point of where it's just a very ';base'; thing..having sex with anyone, everyone, porn, kiddie porn, using and abusing people, little confused girls dressed up like hookers..i think it makes sex ugly instead of beautiful. and people fight for the right to have it this way.
so we end up with sexless marriages (unions) because people are confused.
one partner may not want to be treated like a sex object or one partner may find porn more interesting than their partner or one partner may not have any passion or feelings of intimacy that they want to keep w/one person for life because they think there's a bigger, better deal out there.
just my opinion.
to me honestly i feel its wrong to give that up in ur marriage. cuz i've been married to my husband for 6 yearz now. but at the sametime im like im down for him no matter what. so regarless if he doesnt want it anymore i'll still love him and be with him. but then im like ohh hell noo thats just being selfish and u guys arent the same anymore. cuz my mom and dad stopped doing it for a long time and i could really tell that they just act as friends. not spouses. to me thats real important in a marriage. i guess what im saying is its okay to not have sex for a certain amount of dayz but forever. thats not cool. when ur an old couple yes. but come on never give up on eachother.
It doesn't make sense to me. I know a couple who sleep in seperate bedrooms and never have sex. He makes a ton of money and she spends it. They have a teenager. He is hot and she is a miserable witch. I do not see why he stays with her at all. I finally just figure he'll leave in a few years when his child turns 18.
There are times when the sex is limited because of sickness, injury, menopause, busy schedules or simply no one wants to make an effort.
The two should talk about needs and make efforts to give not just want to be on the receiving end.
Terri
I wish I could get a relationship like that. I don't like sex. Tried to get into a-sexual sites, but those are mostly teenagers or people who are gay but wont accept it.
Should marriage really be based on sex? If so, I'll stay single.
I couldn't live in one. I love sex and need it. It helps me to balance and find harmony with the world around me. Perhaps in the future that may change but at this point in my life... I need sex. Thankfully my man does too.
Without sex there is no marriage, just a government contract.
statistically, married people still have sex more often than single people.
Well....sex is an important thing and without it i dont think that a marriage can hold it's self togethere.
Breach of Contract. Heck why not be just friends.
i have to say peeps what doesnt have sex in their marriage tend to fight more n not get along as well
it will shrivel and die
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