I think you are incredibly wise and smart.
For many reasons... you will never fantasize about ex-partners when you are married, your husband will never have to think of or ask about your ex-partners (that is a gift to to him), no worries about STDs...
Sex is a gift where people bond not just their bodies but their spirits, and it cannot be taken lightly though so many people mistakenly do.
My wife and I waited three years while we dated. What the world does not know is that God blesses your sex life so much when you wait. Do you think you would want someone else after you wait? That problem goes away, and you have a great desire for each other that LASTS! Isn't that what every one really wants?
God knows what he is doing... you are wise to follow him and his ways.Many people are laughing at someone who decide to remain virgin until marriage?
Anyone who laughs at another person for staying a virgin is an idiot. It's good to save yourself for marriage if that's what you want to do- no point making yourself feel bad just to fit in with the cool kids. Personally I didn't save myself for marriage, but I did wait for quite a long time as I wanted to be with someone I loved and who loved me back. I figure it's pretty much the same, as I don't believe in marriage but still wanted the long-term commitment thing. But then again, you shouldn't laugh at anyone because of their decisions about sex.
Stay strong. I'm 29, and still a virgin by choice. I actually had a girlfriend play the ';if you loved me, you'd have sex with me'; angle that's usually attributed to high school boys. If someone really loves you, they'll accept your decision and believe that you're worth waiting for. Just pray for strength, because it's not easy when most of the world, including someone you care deeply about, is telling you that you're strange for wanting to remain a virgin.
God bless you and your decision! What a better society we would have if everyone did. Abortion, teenage pregnancy, sex as recreation, pornography, these all come about because we do not respect marriage and sex. It is an expression of love between two people, not an activity. Let us pray!
God bless and Merry Christmas
why not? let your first time be with someone special and to the one you're married too instead of a boyfriend that may come and go. at least with a husband you know hes fully committed and wont go anywhere (if you married the right way). that's one of the reasons why God wants us to wait, so we can avoid, unplanned pregnancies meaning bringing up in an unstable environment, stds, regret, you name it. but its just nowadays sex is an everyday thing, almost a hobby. really sad.
No one should laugh at someone who makes that decision. It is a wonderful and rare thing today to take your virginity to the marriage bed. You are to be commended. However if the picture you posted is really you, you may have to put up a hard fight because you look like a very attractive person.
Well, I guess it works out fine for some people. Have fun with that. I personally don't believe in marriage, so obviously I'm not going to understand the idea of waiting to have sex until marriage. But if that's the way you feel about it then all power to you.
I think staying a virgin until marriage is a good thing.
Personally, I'm not going to do that because I don't want to get married.
But I think it's good for a lot of people.
they are laughing because they envy you your self respect and maturity and they are so mixed up. good luck luck to you i say wait for the right man to come along and a plague on teenage pregnancies
You are wise Beyond your years. Technically sexual union is what marries two people according to the Bible. Even the laws of our land agree. No consummation--no marriage.
I think it is personal choice. I would not look down on someone who decides to wait, nor would I look down on someone who decides not to.
It's a great human value. Sex is so overrated because most everyone is caught in the sensual trap set by the people that control the masses via the media
I kinda think if you love each and are ready for it then go ahead and do it but that never happens very often
I agree with you I'm a 17 male and i want to stay pure for marriage. It's not for religion reasons but for self respect.
Yes ignore the laughter just be true to yourself. That way everything falls into place.
it's something Good not to commit fornication ,you shall not be adultrer
You're fine, congratulations on your decision. Don't worry about what other people say. Good luck.
It is each person's individual choice...
staying pure til marriage is responsible cuz ur not spreading herpes ad aids around.
I say go for it. There are too many teenagers playing house these days. I don't see what's so funny about it. I think it's commendable.
It's sweet.
Yes..
It is..
I agree..
good luck... u r doin the right thing
don't worry about what others think. They are not the ones who have to pay the piper.
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