Marriage??

seeing on tv and everything people hate their marriage, experienced people, what do u say?Marriage??
...such is the world of television...for life its up and down a lot of understanding and sharing...


...the LOVE between the two is paramount to HAPPINESS...Marriage??
Happily married for eleven years in August. My parents have been happily married for almost thirty years. If you find the right person, then it's great. My husband and I work together well--sure, we have our ups and downs, but the ups outweigh the downs every time. You can't judge anything by TV--Hollywood has a warped sense of reality it seems. Of course, then again--most of the actors see marriage as being only temporary anyways and not the life-long commitment that it should be.
That's because people like to watch dramatics. Hollywood is a world of it's own. You have to remember never to expect of someone what you expect of yourself or you will be disappointed everytime. Marriage is great and most of the time it is what you make it. It's everything your wedding vows state. They come true. However, for some people, it's just not an option. For me, I think you should not decide it's not an option if you have never tried marriage. Most married couples tried living together first.
You'll hear this alot : Marriage is great if u find the right person





and it's true .. marriage is not that hard part .. it's what u REALLY want in a person u will find .. u wont find everything u hope for but some things should make up for the bad things in that person





those who hate their marriage hate it becuz they want a great marriage with no problems, no arguements , no worries and no hard work which is impossible


even when u r in love with someone (ur gf maybe) u WILL argue w WILL have some problems and u will work hard and that's becuz u want it to work





everything has its good and bad .. so does marriage
I love my marriage we have our problems like anyone else. I don't regret marrying him and we have a wonderful life together. I think marriage is only for certain people and just cause you get married doesn't mean its going to work out. You have to really want it and really love each other. You can still love each other without being married too.Its a personal preference.If you do marry the wrong person or if things go bad your pretty much f*cked lol cause you have to half everything... and change your name and so on lol. I don't care i love who i am with if it doesn't work out it was all worth it just to have the time we have had together.
the divorce rate is so high and many people are unhappy but im really happy. I married my best friend . To be happy u have to marry for the right reasons.





U have to be so careful who u marry and u have to work at it to keep it happy. Alot of people have the attitude that the grass is greener on the other side when they get bored of the marriage but i know many times its not the case.
It's different for eveyone. I'm 32 been married 12 years...and NO i wasn't pregnant at the time. It just seemed right, Somtetimes, it 's for money, for love, for babies, for hope, for sorrow. I don't think any two are exactly alike. It works for some not for others. For us, it's been growing up together, laughing, crying, surviving near death accidents, cancer and an unexpected baby. It's beenlife real and in your face the whole time. I think it';s great.
I've been married for about 6 1/2 years and I couldn't be happier. We have 2 kids and one on the way. I agree with the person who said if you find the right person its great.


I really couldn't ask for anyone or anything better. We have a great relationship and its nice to have someone to share your life with and raise kids.
Never base real life off of the TV. Its way overdone. And don't judge off celebrity marriages either. Alot of times they are publicity stunts.





I've been married for five years. I won't say its been blissfully easy, but we've had a determination to make it work and love each other very much. If its real, things will find their way. Alot of people tend to rush into it. Make sure its what you want and that you really can see yourself with that person.
Marriage is a utter scam, trap, life long sentence to a total heartache.





You dont really KNOW anyone...always expect the unexpected.
Yeah I was asking the same thing.......


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





I was wondering myself. Is it really worth the pain?
reality is very much different from soap operas!!!





In TV, they get paid to act normally. In reality, You get laid for living.
Marriage is a wretched institution. The worst mistake you will ever make !
every marriage is different just be sure yours will be right nothing is guaranteed in this world
Marriage is for stupid people who want a goverment contract. Its a damn fool thing to do.