Marriage???

Is there a big difference between ';loving your spouse'; and ';being in love with your spouse';? If there is a difference, please explain.Marriage???
Yes--because you can start to love your husband like a brother, where you care if they live or die, you do all you can to try to make them live a good life...but you're just not attracted to him and don't think of him as a friend.





However, if you're willing to work at it, there's a way to get that ';in love'; feeling back. It will never be like it was when the two first started dating (way back in the day), and it's rough to do when there are kids involved, the house, the laundry, work, etc. But it's definitely possible.





With the exception of abuse (mental, physical, drug/alcohol), I don't think there's any problem that can't be solved in a marriage so long as both parties are more than willing to work it out.Marriage???
I'll take a shot at ';Being in love withyour spouse';





You get butterflies in your stomach when she calls or when you know your going to see her. You can't wait to listen to how her day went. You look at her like no one else around matters, when she is away for any leghth of time it feels like part of you is missing, you wonder around aimlessly and answer question on this site. Being in love is the greatest and most painful feeling in the world.
One is the action, the other the emotion.
It could be the same, it could be different. It's all up to you. For me, since it's directed to a spouse, they won't differ.
YES you can love anyone but when you are in love with them it tells them that you know who they are but you love them for all of their faults, you love them no matter what life may throw at you or your relationship ect.
Being in love is infatuation. It generally fades during the first year of marriage or living together, but sometimes it happens all over again due to the right circumstances.


Loving your spouse is more complicated than infatuation, as it involves minor and major expressions of affection, loyalty, nurturing, support, doing things together, enjoying each other's company, and even being each other's best friend. Loving spouses are responsible to each other and operate on a basis of mutual trust.
Yes they are different because in love means you actually do love him or her. But loving completely the oppsite.
what is your view of commitment at the first place?
there is a whole world of difference... :D
Yes; you can love many people but 'being in love' shows that this person is special; apart from the others