Marriage???

i have plans to go abroad for higher studies... actually freedom is the major reason y i wana move... i have lived with my folks all my life (thats normal in india) but now i wana move... but lately i got a marriage proposal n the guy lives in the same country where i wana go...everything seems good on his side... now im confused ...shud i accept the proposal or go all by myself???Marriage???
Its not very often that you come across a proposal that really seems to match your wants and wishes..But you should remember,the main reason you want to get outta here is to enjoy your freedom.As am Indian,i know what you mean,the freedom and personal space will help you develop into someone more mature,also,marriage can wait,once you are married,you will not get to spend this 'freedom' that you want.If the guy interests you,tell your parents you aren't ready for marriage as yet,but once you are in the other country you will definitely meet him and see how you like him.That way,you can keep your freedom,enjoy it,and at the same time,you wont be rejecting a potentially good-great proposal,this will also help you in knowing that guy better,since it would be foolish to accept a proposal without knowing the guy better,because no matter what you read/know about the guy,unless you meet him for real,and see whether or not you are compatible in each other's presence,you wont know if you are doing the right thing by accepting the proposal.





As for going yourself,I'd say go for it,go on your own,learn to be independent,make new friends,live and see life in a different dimension without being bound or committed to something you are not fully sure about.If possible,ask your parents if you can have the guy's contact number or email,directly talk to him and express your concerns,if he has enough of common sense and patience,he would go with you,if he acts pigheaded,you will know you made a good choice by not accepting it!Take your time girl,enjoy every moment right now,it wont come back!Good luck!Marriage???
Go by yourself. You can do it!





Don't marry a guy you don't know.
Do you love him? Enough to want to spend your life with him? Yes? Go for it. No? Go see the world and decide what you really want from life- you will find someone you really love in time.
Do you love him?


Marriage is more than a geographical relocation, it involves mind, body and spirit.





Think carefully, choose wisely.
if he allows u to do ur higher studies...then what to think...if everythng is good on his side...just marry him...
with marriage come responsibilities. being single is different you can do things at your own time, you are not answerable to anyone, but after marriage things change. you are already going through one change-moving abroad. will u be able to handle two major changes and still study? if u r really interested meet the guy and find out if he can wait or share your responsibilities if you study after marrying him.
ya. u accept the proposal. After all u being married anytime. So it is the best oppertunity for u. first u do marriage then go %26amp; continue abroad wat u want to do.
wt ur heart says ....... if ur heart says its right %26amp; this is the opertunity which was looking u %26amp; after this dicision every thig ll be ok so u should go with ur heart.........
Find out further details carefully %26amp; if all is well , get married to him.
From what you are saying it sounds like you may be considering marrying the man just because he lives where you want to move but, when you are asking the question whether you should maybe go by yourself instead it sounds like you are not ready for marriage yet. Its fine to see the man although you didn't really mention how you felt about him. My advice is not to make any decision about marriage until you are even considering it in the first place. I do think you should still go to where it is you want to go but enjoy yourself for now and worry about the guy stuff later.
Mawage, mawage is what bwings us togever today!
gir go by yourself... you need to experience life for a while an ohhh I dunno.. have some freedom, and MAYBE MAYBE find a guy you like all on your own! fun!
If he holds you back.. try to work out a comprimise.. if he can'rt listen to you.. forget him.. many more men out there.