Marriage?????

hi im am 18 and i want to be married evryone says im stupid but ive wanted this since like 8th grade!! my moms tried evrything to discouage me from thinking about this she says im too young but 3 of my friends are married and i see, maybe what i wan't to see but i see love and commitment and i want that so bad!!! i may be stupid but i really want this what do you think?Marriage?????
Wait...... Wait......... Wait.........You have entire life to find the right guy for you and at this age you haven't experienced life at all.





Find out who you are before jumping into anything. Make some goals and live life before you do anything stupid like getting married at an age before you even know what love truly is yet.





All in all WAIT!!!!Marriage?????
Have you thought about happens after you get married?


Nothing really changes. You should be just as emotionally and physically committed to your boyfriend as you are now and after you get married. Your love for each other does not just get better.





How long have you been with your boyfriend?


I have seen people get married after dating each other for several months....some stick together and while others get in divorce (which is pretty much hell). Make sure you really are ready to be with him for the rest of your life and he is ready to do the same for you...which leads to my next question...





Have you lived with your boyfriend yet?


You never know a person until you live with them and learn their home habits...





These are some of many quesions you should ask yourself. My opinion is that you should wait. There so many things out there in the world that you can possibly experience or do where a marriage might hinder you from doing so. Whatever the decision you choose, make sure u now the consequences. Good Luck!
it is everylittle girls dream to get maried but i wouldnt do it. not at that age, take your time. life is too good to want to grow up that quick.
WHY do you want to be married? What is it about marriage that makes you want it so much?


It's normal to want to marry at some point, but not to obsess about it.


Also the love %26amp; committment you can give someone at 18 pales in comparison to what you can offer as you become older and more mature. You can also GET love and committment from friends, family even a boyfriend without being married.


You are not stupid. You are young. There is a void in your life that you think marriage can fill. It doesn't work that way. Marriage can be wonderful. A good marriage can add happiness to an already happy person, but it can't make you happy.
Just because you are 18 doesn't mean that getting married now will end in divorce. The problem lies in that most 18 year olds have not had life experiences necessary to keep a marriage successful. The reality of what marriage is often times different from what we imagined it to be. Your mom speaks from her own experiences in life when she is telling you to wait. She probably wants you to go to college, get a job that you like, and once you are much more stable the commitment to marriage will be easier.
you are too young to get married. you need to wait a little time. there are lots of things that are waiting for you out there. and you can still see and have love with your family and friends. and you can have commitment with the things that you are good at or in school.
Go for it my hubby and I were married when I was 18. We have been married for 6 years now and are still in love and happy.
You might be or think you are ready but the 17 to 25 year old boys you find are not. They will promise you the world but they only want one thing and they will get tiered soon and cheat on you. You will be miserable for the rest of tour life. Please wait and don't jump into anything. Berry yourself into school it will help you support you self when the husband leaves you or you leave him (hope it never happens) but you will be prepared and not depended on someone.