Marriage??

People say you should take your relationship slow and not fast?? Why is that?Marriage??
If you go up on the stairs step by step you are safe - if you take more than one at a time there is a good chance you will fall.Marriage??
because if you take it to fast you may not get to know that person really well as when you take it slow. If you take it slow it could be some sort of test to see if that person is committed to you or not, divorce is high because they don't take the time to see if they can actually stand each other instead of taking their time to see if they can. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and now we are getting married, and i feel confident because i know his habits and know what to expect and accepting it. so i believe slow is the best
That expression is often stated while a couple is dating---for obvious reasons. Having sex with someone impairs your ability to see the other person clearly, and you miss important signs of whether you should actually be with this other person or not. The intent of taking things slowly is so that a couple can really get to know one another BEFORE they become intimately involved.
Because marriage is a really serious thing that nowadays people take so lightly. So you should take a relationship slow just to be sure that you really trully want to be with this person. If you take that step too fast something MIGHT happen that could lead to divorce.
Because slower is more fun, engaging and more effort for the chase and the catch, that feeling can be prolong if taken slowly and carefully rather than a rushed relationship, when going too fast, it's all about sex and the novelty will wear off and people get bored.
My wife and I got married after know each other for just 6 weeks, we are still in love and I don鈥檛 regret anything, more sex would be nice but other then that, I鈥檓 good.