Friday, November 25, 2011

How many people think it is wrong to have sex before marriage?

I have heard it all bad good ok what do you guys think?How many people think it is wrong to have sex before marriage?
I would NEVER marry someone I haven't had sex with.





You probably don't need ME to tell you this, but not everyone is good a sex. In terms of having he right physical stuff and the right strategies, and techniques, there is a very broad spectrum.





I don't wanna date a woman for 3 or 4 years then get married and find out on the honeymoon that she smells like a rotting corpse and doesn't shave her pubes.





I think you women have it even worse. Us guys can make the same mistake with pubes. We can be too short, too thin, we can have a penis stuck in he shape of a banana. We could have erectile dysfunction and not be able to perform at all, or we could have premature ejaculation and not be able to last a full minute of intercourse without coming.





You wanna take that risk knowing the only ways out are divorce or having affairs? I'll pass.How many people think it is wrong to have sex before marriage?
Sex before marriage is a matter of preference. Some will take a religious/moral stance saying you should wait until marriage. And that's valid. I think it's a good thing be sure that the relationship isn't just about sex/attraction, but something more.





At the same time, sex is a big part since it is an expression of both your attraction and love for your partner. It's another facet of the person you should know about. And if you're just not compatible sexually, it could mean problems later on. So having some experience before marriage and learning how to communicate each other's needs can be good.





One's not necessarily better than the other and it really comes down to what you're comfortable with. Personally, I just wait until I'm comfortable enough to be open with the person before I take the plunge - regardless of whether it's before or after marriage.
I don't think it's necessarily right or wrong - it's a personal choice. What I think is wrong is having sex just for the sake of it, without really knowing or loving the person you're with. I doubt God is going to punish people for having premarital sex... I mean, it's not like He came down from the sky and wrote down the rules Himself, right? Whatever suits the person, I guess.
I believe it is wrong to have pre-marital sex. I am a Christian. Waiting until marriage to have sex is a protection, not a punishment. And when people say ';I wouldn't buy a car without driving it'; BULL! That doesn't mean anything. Sex is something a married couple is supposed to LEARN HOW TO HAVE TOGETHER. That is part of the fun of being a newly wed! NO ONE is born a good lover. So why go out and sleep with a bunch of people to gain ';experience'; when you are still going to have to learn what each other likes anyways? I waited. My husband and I both waited. we were 21 when we got married and this next month it will be our 6th anniversary. Totally worth the wait!
Oh come on in today's corrupted world, true marriage is a diamond in sand. Morals have changed ever so gradually and this is one of them. Everyone is going to say something different, but there really is no right answer.





Myself, however, I'd rather not wait. ASAP lol. jk but marriage just is not that important to me at all. Honestly, it's a waste imo.
I personally believe in making a marriage last and to me that means only marrying someone who I KNOW is perfect for me. To me that means that I have to see all sides of that person. Living together and sleeping together are part of that. I would never marry someone without experiencing all aspects of who they are.
Personally, I don't believe people should have to wait until marriage if they don't want to. I do, however, believe that people should attach some meaning to sex and not just treat it as a fun hobby. I think it should be reserved for someone you love and trust.
You gotta try it before you buy it. I don't care what anyone tells you. You don't want to marry a terrible lay. Make sure you bone before you get married. My own mother in law told my wife not to marry me unless I was giving her regular orgasms.
Too many





There's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage, after marriage, or instead of marriage.


Sex is good. Everyone should be having more of it.
Seeing how their are an estimated six billion people in the world, I will have to get back to you on that one.I have got a lot of questioning ahead of me if I am going to answer this on.
I believe it's wrong. Sex is an intimate act. If you do it beforehand, you cause you and your partner a lot of pain that can be avoided.
Who gives a sh!t any more?





Do what you want, when you want it and how you want it!


It's your relationship and no one should judge it!


Do what makes you happy!
God does not approve of it, and it's great if two people could save themselves for marriage, but I feel that it's nearly impossible in today's world.
your not suppose to. I like to. that's me being honest. but i don't want to get married again sooo. I know this girl who waited and she found out it was not worth the wait. lol
64,304,214 (I think - the numbers change rapidly)
i dont think its wrong but if you wait its a great thing no matter what. but its not bad what if you get married at 80 so you'll have sex at 80 that's crazy its not good or bad
naughty naughty.
whatever your preference Every one is different.
OK with me for two consenting adults.
Please try it out before marriage just in case you dont like it.
I think it's wrong not to !


I mean you gotta get some sex in before you die.
2,345,837,013





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I think it's wrong not to. Or at least unwise.
My life would have been really boring had I waited.
if it's wrong, i dont' want to be right
you have to...you dont want to buy a car without test driving it..
not I
I would never buy a car unless I test drove it first
Thats not what God Wants. i'd wait till marriage
Have as much as your can, then leave him/her before marriage. Its a lot cheaper that way.
i dont know tbh. I know someone who lost their virginity at 11 and then again at 12

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