Can you repair your marriage after your spouse finds out you had phone sex?

It's not me but someone very close to me. He found out his wife had phone sex w/his best friend. They have been together 19 years married for 13 years and he says the marriage is over because he can't trust her anymore.Can you repair your marriage after your spouse finds out you had phone sex?
Yes. Guys tend to take awhile to come to a conclusion. Guys usually with enough time get over it.


Most all women will forgive it just takes time. Key thing is for the guy NOT to apologize.Can you repair your marriage after your spouse finds out you had phone sex?
Something like that can be very disrespectful and show betrayel to the faithfullness of the spouse. It is up to them to figure out what they want to do to rectify the situation. If he feels he can't trust her, then he can't, though if they work on things and make sure she doesn't do it again and distances herself from situations that could be tempting then things can work out.





That is a personal marital situation only them 2 can discuss and take care of, no real reason to be asking or finding info regarding it/them.
I think it can be repaired. The best bud has to go, though, if he's to keep the wife. There's something going on with the marriage and it needs to be figured out and worked on, along with the trust that needs rebuilding. I could get over it eventually, I think, if I caught my husband doing the same thing. I'd be pissed and there would have to rules but I think I could.
Repairing any relationship takes two people who are equally committed to making it work. It doesn't really matter what happened (phone sex, cheating, etc) as long as both people want to move forward.





If the husband is ready to end it...it might be too late.
Can you repair your marriage after your spouse finds out you had phone sex?





NO. They went outside the marriage for intimate emotional / sexual support. Stick a fork in it - that marriage, and mine if my spouse was doing that, would be DONE.
You can but whos to say where that could have led
Yes, but you have to go through the phone company and use an operator.





LMAO...phone sex....are you serious?
eww, sorry but only whacks have phone sex.
No especially if it was with the best friend.
Yes but it does take a while and eating a lot of crow.
After that long I don't know. It was his best friend. I would be super pissed if I caught my hubna ddoing that with my friend. It may even be over.
with his best friend that's a double whammy. but guy's have a more time with this then women. women will forgive easier
kinda like an affair and hes treating it that way